There are many sides to a building depending on which side you are viewing form. The side we love to see is that which has the best of aesthetic.Oftentimes we neglect the most important part in our judgement.
Our clue to judgement depends on what we one to see in the character in question. The bad sides we often complain about tells how much time we have devoted to the person. Just a moment longer may give clarity to our perception of initial weakness or flaw in the person.Anyway,a moment longer tells what is present in the person in question,and most times we see they are stronger than we thought.